Why “Just Be Positive” Is Terrible Advice
- Jay Green (J Marie)

- Feb 11
- 2 min read
“Just be positive.”
It sounds harmless. Encouraging, even. Like something you’re supposed to feel grateful for hearing. 🫠 But most of the time, it lands wrong.
Because when you’re struggling, “just be positive” doesn’t feel supportive… It feels dismissive. 😔
It skips over what you’re actually carrying.


